Why You Have to Set Mini Goals

I just finished my weekly Skype call with one of my SPX clients (we'll call her Amy). Amy told me she had good news and bad news to report. I asked for the good news first. She said that she went to the gym 2x this week. (Amy HATES the gym and has anxiety about working out in public due to her insecurities with her body.) I was so proud! Then she said, "but I didn't really do much..." 

I stopped her right there. Anytime you make time for exercise, CELEBRATE! Going from a sedentary lifestyle to a regular exercise routine takes time. It will not happen overnight.

Make a list of all the things you want to do to live a healthier lifestyle. As you accomplish each one (an accomplishment is doing it on a regular basis, most of the time), cross it off your list. So if you make it to the gym 2x/week for 3 weeks, cross it off your list. You are now a regular exerciser!

You have to set mini goals or else your end goal will seem to big to reach. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. How do you fully transform your lifestyle, one mini-goal at a time.

Be well! What do you want to celebrate?

Yours in Health,

Coach Steph

The Power of Sleep

A new study by the University of Colorado raises awareness about the role of sleep in health. NPR reported that people who slept for only 5 hours a night ate more than when they slept for 9 hours, and The New York Times announced that “losing just a few hours of sleep a few nights in a row can lead to almost immediate weight gain.”

My top tips for getting better and more sleep:

1. Make your bedroom your sanctuary. Only use your bed for sleeping or reading a REAL book, not an electronic book. Your body needs to know that when it lays in bed it's going to sleep or...we won't go there LOL!

2. Turn off all electronic devices one hour before bed. TVs, tablets, e-readers, cell phones, etc all emit a blue light that keeps the brain awake. Do you really need to check your email or Facebook again?

3. Create a bedtime routine. Just like when you were a kid, create a routine that prepares your body for rest. Mine looks like this: I drop the thermostat one hour before bed. Then, I take a bath with lavender oil and warm but not super hot water. Then I do all my personal hygiene care before I let all the steam out of the bathroom. Last, I only use a soft light in the room while reading a quick chapter of a calming book (no murder mysteries or thrillers). I start this all about 9 p.m. and by 10 I'm out like a light. I get up at 5-6 a.m. every day so my sleep schedule is very important in order for me to be productive each day.

4. If you want to start going to bed earlier, go to bed 15 minutes earlier each night until you reach the time you want to sleep.

I know we're all busy, but sleep is when your body heals itself and prepares for the next day. You'll be able to be so much more productive if you're well rested. Here's a great article from webmd.com as well. Happy sleeping!

Yours in Health,

Coach Steph

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My Name is Stephanie, and I Overeat...

Even coaches and trainers have "off" days.  I have maintained a 60 lb weight loss for almost two years.  I'm a runner and currently training for my second 15k.  I love to bench press, squat and dead lift. I am a certified personal trainer and gym owner with a long roster of happy clients.  And I'm an overeater.


Yep, you read that right.  For reasons that have nothing to do with hunger or properly fueling my body, I sometimes overeat.  Because the food tastes good.  Because overeating is familiar and comforting to me.

I'm not sure I'll ever "outgrow" this, but I am conscious of it.  I don't beat myself up, but I do acknowledge when it happens.  And then do you know what I do?

I move on.

Tomorrow is a new day with new food choices, new chances to work out and new experiences.  My overeating does not define me, but it does play a part in my journey. Without acknowledging when it happens, I'm doomed to fall back into overeating cycles.

Awareness is very powerful.  Being aware of your patterns and habits is the only way to break them (if necessary) and form healthy ones.  The key to a life of balance is awareness and self-love.  Don't beat yourself up over a meal or a whole day of food choices that are not congruent with your goals.  Recognize when it happens, AND MOVE ON.

xoxo,
Coach Steph

New Posts are Coming...Good Stuff for the New Year

Hi everyone! I know it's been a couple of months since my last post. I started a series and left you all hanging, and for that, I am sorry. I have been busy with lots of projects and have neglected my blog. I feel really awful about that. In addition to my heavy workload, I have been through some personal issues that have distracted me from my life's work.  But, I will continue the series, as these women's stories are very important and relevant for all of us. Additionally, I have some great topics plan for you for January. Please stay tuned!

Merry Christmas and happy holidays!

Xoxo,
Coach Stephanie

Inspiring Woman #1 - Real Women, Real Struggles, Real Inspiration Series

It's here! The first in a series of four blog posts about real women taking control of their self-image, fitness and health.  Every other week I'll bring you a story from a woman just like you and me who is just trying to love her self, be healthy and take back the notion that we have to be "perfect" to be fit and healthy.

Meet Brittany Arroyo:

Brittany is a nationally certified personal trainer (ACSM) out of Viera, FL and has been dedicated to changing her body and self-image through heavy weightlifting. 

Brittany has a history of eating disorders and being unkind to her body.  Through her fitness and wellness journey, she has been at war with the most powerful "muscle" in her body: her mind.  

Brittany counsels clients, friends and family members about health and fitness issues and has shared what she herself and others deal with.  She also gives her personal philosophy on coaching clients with diet and exercise.

Below is Brittany's personal and candid narrative of these trials and triumphs.  

Disordered Eating/Body Dysmorphia 

"I have a long past of disordered eating and body dysmorphia. While I am much healthier now, I find myself constantly berating myself (too fat, too many calories, not strong enough, not pretty enough, the list goes on). I say things to myself that I would never imagine saying to a loved one or client,  and yet since I've started working in the fitness industry, I've heard many women (and some men) say these things aloud about themselves. Most of the time it's in a joking manner, but I recognize the hurt and pain behind it, as it is my own. 

My struggle is with myself; how do I preach body love and acceptance when I don't accept and love my own body? On the flip side, how do I encourage healthy living and weight without creating unhealthy thought patterns and habits in the process?

I don't remember a time when I've felt comfortable with my body. I stopped eating in high school.  It got to a point where my parents intervened.  They said, 'get better or we're getting you professional help.'  I did go to therapy, but I wasn't ready to deal with it.

People pass judgement that mental health is internal.  As a society, we're bombarded with images and media. Appearance is important. I was raised in a loving home with supportive parents.  I was always comparing myself to others.  I think about it everyday.

I have a PT client in her 50s.  She's really fit but wants to look better.  She told me she's had liposuction and cosmetic surgery.  She only weighs 120 pounds yet still sees a fat person in the mirror.  I want my clients to accept and better themselves.  I want them to stop seeing unmet unrealistic expectations as failure. 

I need to find balance. I'm working on that and self-awareness.  I didn't even acknowledge the problems and the thought process until 1.5 years ago.  People want to train with me because of the knowledge and experience I have.  It's funny the way other people perceive us is not how we see ourselves.

Unhealthy Patterns on Nights and Weekends

"I struggle with not falling into the binge/restrict cycle. I eat super clean on weekdays, all day long and then night-time or the weekend rolls around and I lose my dang mind. I struggle daily to find a balance between being 'on' or 'off.'" 

Teaching Healthy Habits

"Tracking and calorie counting can lead to obsessive behavior.  'Cheat days' can be very detrimental.  I give general guidelines that will work for most people.  2-3 meals a week, eat whatever you want.  I try to screen people and be aware of triggers or red flags with clients.  I keep track and find out the WHY behind why people want to lose weight or get fit. 

I feel like disordered eating is very common.  We've come to accept strange habits as normal.  Juice cleanses, restrictive food habits and 'trendy diets' are all accepted as normal.  Hollywood perpetuates them.  Every person is a personal trainer and expert.  There's so much misinformation on the internet. I only read articles with scientific notation.  If there's no study to back it up, it's just conjecture.  I give resources with legitimate professionals in the industry."   

Working Out is 'All or Nothing'

"I am fairly good about this one.  My clients and friends, not so much. I find many people think they need to workout 7 days a week for an hour or more or else it's useless and they might as well do nothing. I try to emphasize that something is always better than nothing and more is not better but better is better when it comes to fitness.

Most of my clients think that if they can't do the perfect workout, then they shouldn't bother.  Effectiveness of your workout is more important than how long it is.  I give clients at home workouts to do in their off days.  Quickie workouts to create a habit. 

Set a minimum amount of days to workout, whether at home or they gym, and stick to it.  2-3 days at a minimum is my recommendation."

Brittany's Biggest Epiphany

"Lift weights.  Nothing will change your life more than to put weights on a barbell and lift. Lifting weights is the key to looking better, feeling better and thinking better.   I'm most proud of being able to deadlift 1.5 times my body weight and squat over 200 lbs.  I feel strong and powerful."

---Brittany Arroyo, ACSM Certified Trainer
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Committed to continuing education. PT is a science and exercise changes all the time.

Thank you to Brittany Arroyo for your candid testimony and advice to women and men.  Trainers are people too and no one is perfect.  When we stop comparing ourselves to others, we can start to achieve balance.  

Please join us in two weeks for our next profile of and inspiring woman.

Inspiring Woman #2

Perri G - Wife, Mother and Full-Time Chauffeur

Perri became a mom at age 40.  Blessed beyond measure, she struggles with having time to workout, eat well and achieve balance with her mom, wife and work duties.  I think a lot of people can really relate to Perri's story.  She and her husband are trying to be good examples of self-love and healthy body image to their son.  I hope to help Perri find solutions for her busy life, and in turn, help you make exercise and meal planning a priority in your own life.

Thanks for reading my blog this week.  This project is really important to me. I think we need to be talking about our body and food issues.  The only way the rhetoric will change is if we demand it to.  Love your body.  Love your exercise.  Love yourself.

Yours in health,
Coach Stephanie
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Real Women, Real Struggles, Real Inspiration

I know it's been a while since my last post, but I've been working on lots of projects that will help me be a better fitness and wellness coach for you, my loyal readers and followers. It has always been my goal with this blog to help coach you to live your best life, not anyone else's.

Starting this week, I'm rolling out a new series, titled "Real Women, Real Struggles, Real Inspiration." Every two weeks you'll hear from one of four phenomenal women who have entrusted me with their biggest fears, body image issues, fitness and nutrition woes and life situations that they fight to not deter them from their ultimate goals: to be the healthiest woman they can be.  That said, this isn't just a series for women, men can benefit too.  As I was reminded by one of these women, whom I'll introduce below, men struggle with body image and are a lot of times not represented adequately.

These women are friends of mine who I've come to know from all stages and phases of my life: my childhood, my past career and my current career.  They are all remarkable and different, and I can't wait for you to get to know them.  

These women, like many others, are trying to find balance in their lives. I think you can never have enough strong women in your life to relate to and learn from.  I also think the more we have open dialogue about our fears and insecurities, the more united we'll be come. 

Now, let's meet the ladies!

Inspiring Woman #1 
Brittany Arroyo - Certified Personal Trainer and All-Around Bad-Ass


Brittany is an ACSM-certified personal trainer.  She has transformed her mind and body with the power of weightlifting.  She is an incredible woman of character and strength, and I can't wait for you to get to know her.  Brittany was very candid with me about her past eating disorder and how it still affects her today.  She's now a very strong and fit woman, but still struggles with body image.  I think you'll learn that trainers are human, too, and it's ok to not be perfect because no one is. 

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Inspiring Woman #2
Perri G - Wife, Mother and Full-Time Chauffeur

Perri became a mom at age 40.  Blessed beyond measure, she struggles with having time to workout, eat well and achieve balance with her mom, wife and work duties.  I think a lot of people can really relate to Perri's story.  She and her husband are trying to be good examples of self-love and healthy body image to their son.  I hope to help Perri find solutions for her busy life, and in turn, help you make exercise and meal planning a priority in your own life.






Inspiring Woman #3
Carolyn J - Wife, Mom and Overcomer of "Mommy Guilt"

Carolyn completely overhauled the way she and her family eats.  Then, she fell in love with the gym and started getting stronger and seeing the changes in her body.  She struggles with wanting to spend as much time as possible with her husband and two sons, and exercising, something that brings her peace and stress relief.  We'll also discuss Carolyn's challenges with avoiding boredom with healthy eating and not putting so much pressure on herself to be perfect.






Inspiring Woman #4
Barbara L - Southern Belle, Loving Wife, 
Awesome Grandma

Barbara lives with Hashimoto's Thyroiditis and Hypothyroidism, which has caused her to gain weight.  Additionally, she has chronic nerve pain that makes cardio exercise painful.  I hope to help Barbara find exercises she can do, as well as live a life she enjoys with food she loves, while still achieving her weight loss goals. 











Can't wait to share and discuss so many hot topics with you all.    Together, we can live our best lives and support and encourage one another.

Yours in health,
Stephanie 

Are You Eating Enough?

When sitting with a new client for a nutrition consultation, I always ask them to keep a 3-day food journal of what they eat and drink for three consecutive days.  One of the things most of my clients who are struggling with weight loss have in common is that they DO NOT EAT ENOUGH.

Yes, you read that right.  You have to eat to lose weight.

Your body requires fuel.  It is a magnificent machine.  But, you have to feed it right to get the results you want.

I did a phone consultation with a weight loss client today.  She told me she had hit a plateau and was no longer losing.  I asked her what an average day looked like.  She gave me this food journal entry:

Breakfast - granola bar, 140-150 calories, 32 oz of water
Lunch - Salad with greens and grilled or baked meat, 400 calories
Dinner - anything I can get my hands on.  I'm starving.

Anyone see the problem here?  My client isn't eating enough. By the time dinner rolls around, her blood sugar is so low and her body is starving, so she eats the most satisfying, quick food she can get - simple carbohydrates.

Most women are afraid to eat.  Afraid that 300-400 calories at a meal will make them fat.  WRONG.  What's making you fat is you're starving your body. Be good to it, feed it, and you will start to see the scale move.

Food journaling is a very effective tool for weight loss.  Simply writing down in a notebook what you eat each day will help you see trends in your habits.  There are also apps for smartphones and websites that help you keep track.  Whatever helps you keep yourself accountable, do it.  Don't go crazy obsessing over calories, but keeping track of what you eat will make you aware of how much you're actually consuming.

Mayo Clinic has a calorie estimator on their website.  Your daily caloric needs depend on your height, weight, sex, age and daily activity level.  As long as you eat close to your calories needed per day and moderately exercise, the scale should move.

Keep these tips in mind too:

1. Never go more than three hours without eating. When you eat a snack in between your meals (Breakfast, Lunch, Dinner), it helps your stabilize your blood sugar and will help you avoid binges that happen when you wait until you are starving to eat.

 

2. Use fruit as fuel for exercise. Best time to eat fruit: first thing in the morning with protein or 30 minutes before a workout for fuel. Fruit is very good for you and full of nutrients, but it is a sugar and when not paired with a protein, it can spike your blood sugar and leave you unsatisfied and hungry an hour later.

 

3. Explore new vegetables. One of the main complaints people have when starting to eat better is boredom with food. There are so many vegetables and countless ways to cook them.

So be adventurous, visit your local farmer's market and try something new!

 

4. Stick to proteins and veggies at all of your meals. Vegetables are a great source of carbohydrates and are very nutritious. Simple carbohydrates (potatoes, white bread, white rice, pasta, sugar, corn), when not used as a fuel, turn to fat in the body when not used as fuel. Your best bet is to eat simple carbs sparingly.

 

Along with a healthy diet, all-natural, healthy supplements can accelerate your weight loss.  I have a lot of clients who take Nutri-Thin, Nutri-Cleanse and Sea Veg as a part of their weight loss plan.  Check them out for yourself.  

 

I'd love to help you reach your goals.  Follow me on Twitter, Like me on Facebook, or shoot me an email. 

Yours in health,

Stephanie